Three strikes, you’re out

After my last post, things took a drastic turn for the worse. I won't lie, I was totally smitten with this Doctor moving to Boston. I am not sure if it was Harvard, or all the punny jokes, but he swept me off my feet. Unfortunately, as I was developing feelings for someone who was … Continue reading Three strikes, you’re out

My adventures in dating and how I found a unicorn

Due to popular demand, I am writing this blog post late on a Sunday night in regards to my adventures in dating. This is an ongoing narrative, but thought I'd give an update in the dating life of Jen. Some background: I have been in full-time school since June 8th, and I have a 1 … Continue reading My adventures in dating and how I found a unicorn

Growth comes from discomfort

Unless you've been living under a rock, you're likely aware of the many protests occurring in order to bring about changes in regards to how people of color (POC) are treated. This is not a new fight, it's actually been going on for hundreds of years. The hate crimes/ police brutality are not new either, … Continue reading Growth comes from discomfort

Growing in emotional maturity

For the longest time, I was looking for love in all the wrong places. In college, I was holding my breath waiting for my boyfriend to trust me. Once he didn't trust me, there was no relationship. I just kept pressing forward only to make things even harder and more painful when I finally walked … Continue reading Growing in emotional maturity

Positive mindset and manifestations

Please note: I am 100 percent aware that things could be worse. I am not here to say anything negative about anyone, as I do not know everything they're going through and so trying my best to see things with grace and love despite the hardships I am experiencing. Three months ago I finally woke up … Continue reading Positive mindset and manifestations

Moving on from disappointment

If you've been reading my posts, you've likely noticed a trend of me writing about heartbreak and hard situations that have shaped me into the person I am today. Ever since going through my divorce, I have been on the defense with every person I meet. I settled just for the wrong attention after my … Continue reading Moving on from disappointment

Motherhood has broken my heart

I'm forever changed and always grateful for it. This is a growth opportunity, but one I didn't see coming when I found out I was pregnant in September of 2018. See, I had lost my way. I was trying to pave my own path, only to be shown once again that my plan wasn't written … Continue reading Motherhood has broken my heart

October = Change

For most of my adult life, the month of October (and the season of Fall in general) has brought change for most years than I can remember. In this post, I'm going to go over some of the biggest changes I went through and how they've shaped me into the person I am today. The … Continue reading October = Change

A special prayer

I recently found out that my ex is going through some major personal struggles. When I first heard this, a tiny part of me felt a little relief. Sometimes, when you're on the outside looking in all you see is perfection. But then I felt guilty. And ultimately, I turned to God with all my … Continue reading A special prayer

This is Me: Take it or leave it

Once I heard the song This is Me for the first time (in church of all places) it instantly got stuck in my head. After looking it up and playing it on repeat for a few weeks, I finally sat down and watch The Greatest Showman. It was a great movie and in some ways … Continue reading This is Me: Take it or leave it